In honor of the one-month anniversary of my arrival in Cambodia, I thought I’d share a few of the things I’m beginning to get used to:
1. SWEAT. I have become much more accepting of sweat—both my own and others’. While it feels and smells kind of gross, it serves a practical purpose for which I’m very thankful. And mopping up buckets (literally) of sweat is a great reminder to drink more.
2. HEAT (closely related to number 1). Rather than seeking out air conditioning, I now tend to avoid it in favor of fans. The shock of foggy glasses and instant sweat as I walk out of an air-conditioned building is soooo not worth the brief reprise I enjoyed while inside.
3. HOURS. I am (slowly) beginning to get used to two-hour lunch breaks. Office hours are 8-5 with a two-hour break…which is more than enough time for staff to cook, eat, and nap together. I’ve also shifted my schedule forward a few hours—I’m really excited if I’m still awake at 10 pm, or if I manage to sleep past about 5:30 or 6:00. The roosters, cement workers, temples, babies, birds, and other beasts begin to stir as soon as there’s a hint of daylight. And it gets dark as soon as 7 pm, so in the village everyone goes to bed incredibly early.
4. LANGUAGE. Until I learn enough Khmer to respond and defend myself properly, people will talk about me while I am standing there. The language barrier is the most frustrating aspect of my time in Cambodia—whether buying food in the market, playing bowl with AOC staff, or attending a village meeting, I always feel a bit out of the loop. I can pick up enough words to know the general subject of a conversation, but I miss most of the details. But this provides fantastic motivation to learn fast!
5. NAMES. I am no longer Naomi. With Khmer people, it’s usually “OWE-me,” or “Naaah-OWE-me” if I’m really lucky. I’ve also acquired a plethora of nicknames from the wonderful family I’m staying with in Phnom Penh. Among these is “Ruby-booby,” which really seems to have stuck. Do I ever regret revealing the nickname I used to use to tease my brother!
6. BEAUTY. The people are beautiful. The lush green vegetation is beautiful. The fruit tastes heavenly. One of my favourite Khmer words is “sa-at.” Guess what it means!
7. CHANGING PLANS. Plans change on a regular basis, and are always affected by the weather—especially as the rainy season takes hold. I’m here to work on a bioSand water project, but just got to spend the last two days helping a dental outreach team in a nearby village. It was a great experience. I am now pretty skilled at hand-mixing tooth fillings, and I know all the Khmer words for "open big," "where does it hurt," "close," etc. One of my favorite memories so far was the ride back—hunched in the back of a pickup truck in crazy traffic and a spectacular downpour. I have never been so drenched in my life! When I got home, I thought I had acquired a wicked sandal tan...but it washed off in the shower.
8. RAIN. As I just alluded to, the rainy season has officially begun. I am already skilled in wading through knee-deep puddles, and have learned to keep my wallet and camera in a large ziploc even on the sunniest-looking day. Apparently the district we work in (which has awful roads) will gradually become more and more difficult to travel in. I already think they are border-line impossible, and I say a little prayer every time I hop on the back of a moto. By August or September, we will need small boats to visit some of our community leaders. No joke. I'm pretty excited for that!
Yep…Cambodia’s an awesome place! I have a few pictures I'd love to share, but I'm not willing to wait the several hours it would take to upload them. Expect a pictoral post next time I have fast internet!